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+6SUMMER Suze liverbird BrenA bingnblaze fredsmum 10 posters | Author | Message |
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fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35966 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: update on my mother.... Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:39 pm | |
| were finally getting somewhere my aunt and i had an appointment with a doctor on tuesday, we explained everything thats been going on with my mother, and she agrees that she needs to be seen A.S.A.P ... so on the 21st september(its the soonest we could all make it the same day lol) i will go to my mums, my aunt will drop by before me, unannounced, and as soon as my mum mentions i am going to visit my aunt will say that she'll stay to have a coffee with me... then shortly after the doctor will arrive and make out she is visiting all new patients in the area then the fun begins... she needs to be sorted though, she is quite often confused and disillusional now, shes a danger to herself and her husband. she keeps telling people that ''they are coming to kill her'' and shes evil tongued....her hygeine is almost nil and her stomach is extremely bloated and she can hardly walk.... from our description to the doctor, she said without seeing my mum and knowing for sure, it sounds like liver failure, which if thats the case, its very very serious ... the delusions etc come with alchohol abuse too... im exhausted by it all i went to see my brother about it yesterday and he wasnt all that bothered (on the surface) so i got quite angry, especially after all the crap i went through when i was young and him being the favourite etc etc, i got quite a different story from him, when i left home it was really really bad for him, it upset me to hear what he had been through, because even though i was treated unfairly it made me feel better knowing at least he was okay...i bet my dad never knew about it all as i never knew any of it, had i known i would have taken him to live with me but even after everything he said, he still said to his girlfriend... ''but please dont think bad of my mum after hearing all this'' we still love her regardless... we just dont like her very much i shall make it up to him or i wont rest lol .... hes going to afghanistan in a couple of weeks too, my mum doesnt know, we arent going to tell her but hes having to change his point of contacts, because if anything happens to him and they go to see my mum it would finish her off ... its awful enough for my brother without him having to think of things like that, and is upsets me when he says....'' why did we get a mum like we did'' if only i could put her in a middle aged peoples home ... someone should open one | |
| | | bingnblaze
Number of posts : 1861 Age : 35 Location : Coventry, West Midlands Rep : 7 Points : 7322 Registration date : 2009-02-12
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sat Sep 04, 2010 6:09 pm | |
| *big hugs* cant imagine how hard this is all for u xxxx | |
| | | BrenA
Number of posts : 7509 Location : Forton Rep : 64 Points : 13512 Registration date : 2009-01-17
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sat Sep 04, 2010 6:53 pm | |
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| | | liverbird Admin
Number of posts : 15537 Age : 68 Location : posh part of scouseland :) Rep : 31 Points : 20766 Registration date : 2009-01-08
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sat Sep 04, 2010 11:15 pm | |
| Oh God Shelley I am so sorry to hear all of the rubbish you have had to put up with while growing up and still having to go through such turmoil with your Mum. I don't have any advice except you know where we are and will always be here for you. I hope it all goes to plan for you when the doctor goes to see your Mum. keep us posted xxxxxx | |
| | | Suze
Number of posts : 784 Age : 49 Location : Fife Rep : 7 Points : 6185 Registration date : 2009-11-01
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sun Sep 05, 2010 9:15 am | |
| Hope everything goes to plan... got all my fingers crossed for you... | |
| | | SUMMER Moderator
Number of posts : 6955 Age : 67 Location : Fife Scotland Rep : 17 Points : 12079 Registration date : 2009-01-13
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sun Sep 05, 2010 11:06 am | |
| Must be awful for you Shell.Hope you get something sorted soon hun. | |
| | | Lainee
Number of posts : 4395 Rep : 25 Points : 9993 Registration date : 2009-06-29
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sun Sep 05, 2010 12:04 pm | |
| Im glad that things are starting to move forward with your mum shelley. Its a horrible disease and changes a person so much. Sorry to hear you and your brother went through so much sh*t when you were younger | |
| | | Sandra Admin
Number of posts : 20040 Age : 61 Location : Ammanford Rep : 22 Points : 22527 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sun Sep 05, 2010 1:52 pm | |
| Shell, I really hope you have the result needed for ALL of you when the doc comes out it's terrible for everyone concerned and such a worry as well, also sorry to hear about your brother Will be keeping everything crossed that after the visit life will be better for all of you, | |
| | | Judes Admin
Number of posts : 11943 Age : 67 Location : Whitley Bay Rep : 37 Points : 17168 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Sun Sep 05, 2010 3:08 pm | |
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| | | Lorz
Number of posts : 3170 Rep : 22 Points : 9260 Registration date : 2009-09-21
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:28 am | |
| Hope all goes well and to plan for you all. | |
| | | fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35966 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: update on my mother.... Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:50 am | |
| cheers girls .. it wasnt all bad , its just easier to remember the s**t isnt it ... my mother is a beautiful woman when shes sober it means a lot to know youre all hear to listen to my ramblings at least when the doctor sees her it'll be easier to ge a mental health team involved, because i know that my mum wont go for any medical issues | |
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