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So sad for you, it's such a difficult time for you as well as for Ben going through it My mum! - Page 6 805515 my heart goes out to both of you My mum! - Page 6 805515
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My mum! - Page 6 925943 i think she meant me My mum! - Page 6 925943

Its going to be hard over Christmas My mum! - Page 6 743284 my mums birthday was on Christmas Eve as well My mum! - Page 6 743284
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I did mean you Bren and she knows it My mum! - Page 6 575435

That's very sad Bren. My eyes filled up reading that My mum! - Page 6 805515
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Awww no My mum! - Page 6 583730 I really didn't know you meant Bren My mum! - Page 6 583730 My mum! - Page 6 805515

That's sad Bren My mum! - Page 6 743284 it's hard for the firsts of everything My mum! - Page 6 805515

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I bought a nice wreath to put on my mum and dads plot for Christmas My mum! - Page 6 910222
We still havent had the stone back yet My mum! - Page 6 583730   its taken ages sorting out because my brother had to deal with it as his name was on the plot from when my dad died My mum! - Page 6 575435 and we have all had to decide on the engraving etc My mum! - Page 6 575435
He was away on a course for work then on holiday then both me and my other brother were on holiday so it has dragged on and on My mum! - Page 6 981857 but its finally been done now My mum! - Page 6 910222  we have to wait on the council putting it down now My mum! - Page 6 517699
Im hoping it looks nice My mum! - Page 6 910222  i picked the design of a tabby cats head sleeping My mum! - Page 6 910222
My mum loved her animals and the design looks just like her last cat  My mum! - Page 6 910222  I think she would have liked it My mum! - Page 6 910222
My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515 It will be very hard for you Shelley being so soon My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515
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it's still quite fresh for you Hun My mum! - Page 6 805515 .... I don't think anyone realises how hard it is until you go through it yourself ....I look back and realise how hard my mum must of found it when my nan died....she hid it so well though, I should of paid more attention My mum! - Page 6 743284

Do you find your self running through the last few years and wishing you'd come things differently or done more ...I do My mum! - Page 6 910222 my mum was a very good actress, she must of been suffering and struggling so much more than we realised, or in just east paying enough attention My mum! - Page 6 743284

I've been looking through verses today for her headstone... I' e chosen some lovely words, hopefully my brother will like them too... When he's home on leave we will choose the headstone!
Mums grace is full of wreaths and pots of flowers and little ornaments already....we take something new everytime we go My mum! - Page 6 658515 I can't help it!!! I want her to look all nice and pretty..she loved her little ornaments ad stuff all around her My mum! - Page 6 805515

Ive also ordered some Xmas cards for her grave that are plastic and on little stakes, I got my brother one for his grave too My mum! - Page 6 805515

Your mums headstone sounds lovely Bren My mum! - Page 6 805515 ..I was thinking of having a terrier etched on my mums headstone....she loves jack russels

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My mum! - Page 6 910222 I find myself wishing i'd gone to visit more often My mum! - Page 6 910222

I found it really hard towards the end to visit for more than an hour at a time because my mum didnt recognise me and wasnt communicating My mum! - Page 6 743284 She would be in her own little world My mum! - Page 6 743284
Its really strange because she definately recognised me when i was with her at the end My mum! - Page 6 910222 and she knew exactly what i was saying My mum! - Page 6 910222

Where did you get the cards from My mum! - Page 6 300576

Did you mean get a card for your brother to put on your mums grave My mum! - Page 6 289342 or have you lost your brother as well My mum! - Page 6 289342
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I got the cards off ebay...they're really good they're all laminated in hard plastic, and stick onto little stakes My mum! - Page 6 910222

I meant I got one for my brothers grave too My mum! - Page 6 910222... I have two brothers, one living and one who passed away many years ago My mum! - Page 6 805515

I bet it was heartbreaking when your mum didn't recognise you Hun My mum! - Page 6 805515  but lovely that she did towards the end bless her My mum! - Page 6 805515  it's strange isn't it...it's as if she knew what was happening and that she was granted that recognition at the end My mum! - Page 6 805515

I kept asking my mum if she loved me towards the end ...as if I needed reassurance My mum! - Page 6 743284 I knew she did, I just wanted to hear it My mum! - Page 6 805515, I'm glad I did now as the last day of her life she didn't come round at all My mum! - Page 6 805515

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I cry every time I read your two posts, so I can imagine how sad it is for both of you My mum! - Page 6 743284 my mum is 81 now and although she is still reasonably healthy she is getting frail...I dread the time when I am in your shoes. My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515
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aww wow 81 Hun My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515 that's a fantastic age My mum! - Page 6 910222 cherish every ickle pickle moment My mum! - Page 6 805515

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PostSubject: Re: My mum!   My mum! - Page 6 Icon_minitimeWed Dec 10, 2014 6:46 am

I will and I do hun but it still upsetting to know what you and Bren a going through
.how are your girls doing and is your brother any better?
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Tia mentions my mum all the time... Most things she does she refers to my mum bless her My mum! - Page 6 805515

Nicole still gets upset obviously but I think she's shoving it to the back of her mind, she does t even really want Christmas this year My mum! - Page 6 583730

My brother is more affected than he lets on My mum! - Page 6 743284 luckily for him or not lucky, he has a mega hard course to get through which finishes in May, he has no time to grieve properly I don't think....it will probably hit him even more then!! I just hope he isn't punishing himself for never visiting mum very often My mum! - Page 6 805515 cos I know it will be playing on his mind My mum! - Page 6 910222

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Gaz always says he wishes he had done more when his mum was alive...I think everyone probably has guilt creeping in...just hope your brother will be on. .trouble is, you can never be prepared for it, can you My mum! - Page 6 805515

Tia being so young, it may help her just having her birthday and Xmas around the corner, may help take her mind off it a bit, Nicole, must be hard for her, thankfully she has you hun who is aware and supportive, not like the woman up the road from me who is a useless prick of a mother, you have always been close to Nicole My mum! - Page 6 805515
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My mum! - Page 6 805515  Hopefully your brother wont beat himself up about not visiting much  My mum! - Page 6 805515
My younger brother is the same My mum! - Page 6 910222  he said he just couldnt handle visiting my mum very often when she didnt know who he was My mum! - Page 6 743284  but now she isnt there to visit he feels guilty My mum! - Page 6 743284

I do think men handle bereavement better  My mum! - Page 6 910222 and dont dwell on their feelings as much as women My mum! - Page 6 583730

My mums stone is finally down and it looks really nice  My mum! - Page 6 910222
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cheers girls My mum! - Page 6 805515

i suppose we all go through different emotions before we come to terms wth it My mum! - Page 6 910222 no point dwelling on what ifs My mum! - Page 6 743284

ooh bren, i bet it looks loads better, and finished off if you know what i mean ....we went to the cemetery yesterday, my mums grave has sunk loads My mum! - Page 6 989279 we were hoping to go and order her headstone but the undertaker had an urgent call out My mum! - Page 6 863498

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Heres my mum and dads stone  

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Been that is so beautiful My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515
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thats lovely bren My mum! - Page 6 805515

weve decided in a few words and a rose for the headstone.... when we finally get to bloomin order it My mum! - Page 6 866713

i want these words .... but my aunt says she doesnt like the last line My mum! - Page 6 300576


A Special Mum We Can’t Replace,
You Gave Your Love,
Your Whole Life Through
God Bless You Mum,
We Love You Too.

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Only ever a thought away,
Loved and remembered everyday.

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You could combine them My mum! - Page 6 910222

Say the first three lines of the top one with the 2 lines of the bottom one, they are both lovely Shell My mum! - Page 6 805515 My mum! - Page 6 805515
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My mum! - Page 6 910222  Thats a good idea Sandra  My mum! - Page 6 910222

They are both nice  My mum! - Page 6 910222

Its such a bid decision picking verses and engravings My mum! - Page 6 517699  it took us ages to decide My mum! - Page 6 910222
My brother wanted a flower then some dancing shoes were suggested but i came up with the cat because even although mum loved dancing and flowers she always had an animal in her life so i thought that was a better choice My mum! - Page 6 910222  Looking at photos of mum when she was younger she always had an animal on her lap and it was usually a cat My mum! - Page 6 910222
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hmmm.... yes i like the thought of combining those words sange My mum! - Page 6 910222 ill see what my brother says My mum! - Page 6 805515

sorry to be cheeky bren, but approx how much is it to get a picture etched onto the headstone My mum! - Page 6 300576

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Im not sure my brother dealt with the stone engraving and the solicitor has the bill now My mum! - Page 6 300576 i will ask him and let you know My mum! - Page 6 910222

Ive got a feeling it was about £600
The price included the wording and cat done for my mum and also my dads existing engraved harmonica and wording redone This is on a cremation plot so its alot smaller than a burial headstone
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ahh right of course My mum! - Page 6 910222 ... i think its going to cost us about £1000 or more My mum! - Page 6 863498

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