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PostSubject: My mum!   My mum! Icon_minitimeSun Oct 12, 2014 5:18 pm

I've not said nothing on Facebook but my mother has been ill again My mum! 743284 .... We don't think it's looking good My mum! 583730

She's massively bloated around the abdomen (larger than most full term pregnant women) she is yelllow and gaunt... She's in evident agony and can hardly move from the sofa!!

She's been denying help, will not let us take her to the doctors!! Nicole went yesterday to see her and was shocked with what she saw, I contacted my aunt who then went round to see her and she rang me up sobbing... So tomorrow we are off over there to call the doctor out regardless of what my mother says!!!

Our biggest worry is that she will die alone and in agony, if all that can be done is to give her some strong painkillers then at least she will find some relief!!

She was warned a few years ago that her liver could be damaged...but still she stopped taking the tablets the doctors gave her and now we are at this stage.....it's so frustrating that she won't get help, she could be dying needlessly!! It angers me that most people would give their right arm for a fighting chance, but my mother is so stubborn and scared that she would rather die My mum! 743284

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My mum! 805515  So sorry to hear this Shelley My mum! 805515 My mum! 805515

Sounds like a good idea to get the doctor out to see her My mum! 910222   Like you said if its a worse case scenario atleast she should be given some pain relief  My mum! 910222
I can never understand people who are in denial like this  My mum! 583730  i realise they may be scared but to not seek help for pain relief i dont understand My mum! 300576 My mum! 2454432500

Youve done your best to get her some help My mum! 910222  she needs to help herself now  My mum! 910222
My mum! 43464  its not as bad as you think  My mum! 805515 My mum! 805515 My mum! 805515
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She's so frustrating Bren!! .... I've had to rehome her little dog because she couldn't cope with him, tomorrow I'm going to check on the cat as my aunt said she was shut away in the kitchen...which is unlike my mother!!

I know what's going to happen tomorrow...my mother is going to go absolutely berserk!! And if we can't get a doctor out, it men's leaving her in that state with no adequate pain relief!! Would be simpler if I could knock her out and then get her committed lol!!

It is literally like she is sitting there dying in front of our eyes.... She had been drinking for best part of 50 years now, I'm surprised she's lasted this long tbh!!... it's heart breaking to see what she's done to herself.... I know she's not drinking at the minute because she's scared...which is even more frustrating, if she can do that so quickly cos she is scared why couldn't she just do it anyway!?!??.... Gerrrr My mum! 866713
Since losing my brother 30+ years ago part of her died then and I don't think she will ever be fully healed until she is with him again!!!.... So so sad My mum! 743284

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so sorry to hear about your mum Shelley. Its so sad that she doesnt want help. I would get the doctor in regardless of her reaction. thinking about you My mum! 805515 My mum! 805515

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Cheers Jude ... Hate feeling helpless My mum! 866713 ...so frustrating!!

I might get her some cannabis to put in her roll ups My mum! 658515 that would make her feel better My mum! 658515

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Do you think she might have a touch of dementia aswell My mum! 300576
Im only saying that because maybe she isnt just scared but is unable to see reason My mum! 517699
People with any kind of mental illness dont see things like the rest of us My mum! 517699
Its a shame they cant see what it does to the rest of their families My mum! 743284
Hopefully she will see sense and let the doctor visit My mum! 910222 even if it is just for pain relief My mum! 910222
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I don't think she's got dementia Hun My mum! 583730 she has a mega phobia of anything medical ...it's the fear of the unknown My mum! 743284 ...

She's just in total denial, she thinks if she tells us a different story we will beehive it My mum! 575435....she convinces herself so she thinks she's convinced us My mum! 805515

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What a shame My mum! 743284 My mum! 756370 she accepts some help soon My mum! 910222 My mum! 805515 My mum! 805515
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~Jeez Shell, so sorry to hear about your mom, she needs a doctor asap as she sounds very ill, in fact I would call an ambulance hun and just let them get her to hospital straight away.

I hope to god she will listen to you, some people are very strongly against help.

Will be thinking of you and your mom hun My mum! 805515
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We would call an ambulance sange but it would be a waste of time if she wouldn't go in it My mum! 575435 I wouldn't want someone else to suffer because she's so stubborn!!! Let's hope the doctor can talk some sense into her *fingers crossed* I can't see it happening though My mum! 583730 she's made her mind up My mum! 743284

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What time you going over tomorrow?
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As soon as I've dropped tia off at school, about 8.30 ... Takes about an hour in the traffic to get there My mum! 863498

My aunt is getting there about 8.30am ... Just hope they do argue before I get there My mum! 743284 ... I don't want my mum too upset if there's no doctor coming out My mum! 583730

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Crossing everything for you hun My mum! 805515

How much does she drink hun, is it a lot?
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Hmmm My mum! 300576

Not as much as she used too, but it's enough My mum! 910222 and it's cider My mum! 743284

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Does she eat well?
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She did sange, but it looks like she isn't at the minute, I'll know when I get there tomorrow cos I know exactly was in her cupboards etc and I know what was in the bin .... I'm also going to check see if the cats being fed!! I've got a large auto feeder thing I'm going to take down so she can feed herself My mum! 502966

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so sorry this must be a nightmare for you, I agree i would do the same and get the Dr hope it goes ok My mum! 805515 My mum! 805515
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Thinking of you, let us know what happens My mum! 805515
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My mum! 910222 Good Luck getting her some help My mum! 910222 Let us know how it goes My mum! 805515
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Fingers crossed she's more accepting once the doctor gets there...have a funny feeling she will tell him to f**k off My mum! 457589

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Lets hope he has a sense of humour and has a good convincing way about him

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Were hoping to get the doctor that knows her from last time My mum! 658515

Otherwise it's going be fun and games My mum! 41621

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Aww I know we are having a laugh but I really do feel for you and her My mum! 805515
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If I don't laugh I will scream sange My mum! 910222

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I know My mum! 743284 pity she won't do it for you
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