Should I stay or should I go?

Subject: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 10:44 am

In a bit of a dilemma here.

My current contract ends in 3 weeks time and I have the choice of 3 others.

One in Manchester, one in London and one in Newcastle.

If I chose Manchester I can travel every day and, with the lighter nights coming, that would mean more time with the horses and the dogs.

With the other two, I would have to stay away during the week, coming home on Friday night.

No brainer you would think BUT the rate for the two 'away' contracts is quite a bit higher and we could really do with the money atm.

Arrrghhhh! What to do?!!!

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Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 11:26 am

if u need the money and can manage not being around ur dogs horses n all that lot then y not go for it? y dont u list the pros and cons ov each contract and then u can see whats best for u and ur pack/family?

good luck with whatever u decide tho :)

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 1:01 pm

difficult decision. Also got the think of the travelling costs etc.
good luck and hope it all goes well

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 1:06 pm

NEWCASTLE!!!!!!!! Should I stay or should I go? 56081

I could always show you the sights!! Should I stay or should I go? 289342

Joking aside its a very hard decision to make and only one that you can do for yourself and your circumstances.

Good luck with whatever you decide Should I stay or should I go? 805515

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 5:38 pm

run jude run Should I stay or should I go? 228784

only joking bev Should I stay or should I go? 74848

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personally i couldnt stay away all week Should I stay or should I go? 583730

but then i have young kids....
you have to do what you feel comfortable with hun... Should I stay or should I go? 805515

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 6:24 pm

That's a toughy, I wish you all the best with ever you choose. London living/staying costs can be quite high, like someone else has said write out the pros and cons of each maybe research the cost for each one ie accomadation/travel/food, general living costs for the away ones Should I stay or should I go? 805515

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Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Sat Feb 27, 2010 7:11 pm

Will the extra pay benefit the staying away from home? and the lack of seeing family and pets, how long is the contract for? will you have to commit to it if you can't handle being away?

Will it put a strain on your homelife if your away? it's a hard one Should I stay or should I go? 910222

good luck though and I hope you make the right choice

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Mon Mar 01, 2010 11:01 pm

Thanks guys.

I would miss my dogs more than anything (especially Nico) but I have accounted for all the costs (accommodation, food, petrol etc) and I would still be quite a lot better off.

The Newcastle contract is initially for 3 months and I guess I can last that long.

My head says away but my heart says home.

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I wouldn't have even considered this had Chloe been younger so I can understand you saying you couldn't stay away Shelley

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Tue Mar 02, 2010 2:27 pm

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Tue Mar 02, 2010 4:35 pm

it is a real toughie bev.... only you can decide what you want to do hun Should I stay or should I go? 805515

.... if you think you can manage it for just 3 months then go for it, the time will pass quickly if you keep busy Should I stay or should I go? 910222

.. but if youre going to be really miserable then surely its not worth it Should I stay or should I go? 300576

i really cant help lol :2431:

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Tue Mar 02, 2010 11:13 pm

Need to sneak Nico up there with me then I'll be fine Should I stay or should I go? 910222

Subject: Re: Should I stay or should I go? Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:20 am

slynico wrote:: Need to sneak Nico up there with me then I'll be fine

sneak him here Should I stay or should I go? 658515

Marley and Kala willshow himthe sights and lead him astray!! Should I stay or should I go? 457589

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