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PostSubject: It's a sad day!   Wed Jul 23, 2014 7:27 pm

My grandad passed away today

Very unexpected, he was in respite care while my nan was poorly....he was found this morning on the floor, he had a massive lump on his head and had had a heart attack but they're not sure if he fell before or after the heart attack

WHat I want to know is how and why he fell, he couldn't stand or walk unaided, surely he should have had an alarm pad that sounds off when the patient leaves it

However, it won't bring him back, he was an amazing man

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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Wed Jul 23, 2014 9:06 pm

so sorry to hear about your Grandad hun.      I would be the same as you wanting to know why and how he fell but like you say it wont bring him back.

RIP Shelleys Grandad   

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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Thu Jul 24, 2014 6:38 am

I feel a little bit numb if I'm honest.... It all seems surreal, I don't think I took in the enormity of what was happening to be honest I knew there was no other ending to this

I also feel awful that I didn't go over there, and then I learn on Facebook that one of my cousins made it over to say goodbye!!
I do have tia though and who was at school (is that making excuses??)

I know for certain that my grandad would think no less of me ...just worried that the rest of the family will think I'm heart less....I feel for my nan and my dad and aunts, but I'm feeling as if my life's continuing as normal while there's is all broken

I'm always awkward in these situations anyway, never quite know the etiquette of it all ....

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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Thu Jul 24, 2014 6:45 pm

 so sorry to hear this  
Dont beat yourself up Shelley  your grandad would understand you couldnt get there
Its hard when you have kids in school to just drop everything

I can understand your frustration about how he was found but hopefully he didnt suffer

Just remember all the good times you had with him       

 R.I.P. Shelleys grandad
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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Thu Jul 24, 2014 8:54 pm

Thank you Hun

I've sent my nan a card giving them all my love
Spoke to my dad again today, he's still over there....I'm hoping to get over at the weekend....but what do you say? What do you talk about? I'm guaranteed to put my foot in it

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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Thu Jul 24, 2014 10:36 pm

There really isnt a right or wrong thing to say tbh   

People take things differently    I found i could talk about my mum right after she passed away no problem but if i talk about it now i feel choked up and emotional   

Im sure whatever you say will be a comfort      
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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Sat Jul 26, 2014 9:52 pm

Went to my nans today ....loads of people there, only talked about my grandad if nan did...

Glad we went

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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Sat Jul 26, 2014 10:05 pm

Im sure your visit was a comfort to your nan
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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Mon Jul 28, 2014 6:34 pm

I'm so very sorry Shell  

may he rest in peace
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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Mon Jul 28, 2014 8:41 pm


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PostSubject: Re: It's a sad day!   Tue Jul 29, 2014 12:51 pm

so sorry shell
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