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fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35946 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: It's a sad day! Wed Jul 23, 2014 7:27 pm | |
| My grandad passed away today Very unexpected, he was in respite care while my nan was poorly....he was found this morning on the floor, he had a massive lump on his head and had had a heart attack but they're not sure if he fell before or after the heart attack WHat I want to know is how and why he fell, he couldn't stand or walk unaided, surely he should have had an alarm pad that sounds off when the patient leaves it However, it won't bring him back, he was an amazing man | |
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Judes Admin
Number of posts : 11943 Age : 66 Location : Whitley Bay Rep : 37 Points : 17148 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Wed Jul 23, 2014 9:06 pm | |
| so sorry to hear about your Grandad hun. I would be the same as you wanting to know why and how he fell but like you say it wont bring him back. RIP Shelleys Grandad | |
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fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35946 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Thu Jul 24, 2014 6:38 am | |
| I feel a little bit numb if I'm honest.... It all seems surreal, I don't think I took in the enormity of what was happening to be honest I knew there was no other ending to this I also feel awful that I didn't go over there, and then I learn on Facebook that one of my cousins made it over to say goodbye!! I do have tia though and who was at school (is that making excuses??) I know for certain that my grandad would think no less of me ...just worried that the rest of the family will think I'm heart less....I feel for my nan and my dad and aunts, but I'm feeling as if my life's continuing as normal while there's is all broken I'm always awkward in these situations anyway, never quite know the etiquette of it all .... | |
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BrenA
Number of posts : 7509 Location : Forton Rep : 64 Points : 13492 Registration date : 2009-01-17
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Thu Jul 24, 2014 6:45 pm | |
| so sorry to hear this Dont beat yourself up Shelley your grandad would understand you couldnt get there Its hard when you have kids in school to just drop everything I can understand your frustration about how he was found but hopefully he didnt suffer Just remember all the good times you had with him R.I.P. Shelleys grandad | |
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fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35946 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Thu Jul 24, 2014 8:54 pm | |
| Thank you Hun I've sent my nan a card giving them all my love Spoke to my dad again today, he's still over there....I'm hoping to get over at the weekend....but what do you say? What do you talk about? I'm guaranteed to put my foot in it | |
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BrenA
Number of posts : 7509 Location : Forton Rep : 64 Points : 13492 Registration date : 2009-01-17
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Thu Jul 24, 2014 10:36 pm | |
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fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35946 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Sat Jul 26, 2014 9:52 pm | |
| Went to my nans today ....loads of people there, only talked about my grandad if nan did... Glad we went | |
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BrenA
Number of posts : 7509 Location : Forton Rep : 64 Points : 13492 Registration date : 2009-01-17
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Sat Jul 26, 2014 10:05 pm | |
| Im sure your visit was a comfort to your nan | |
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hilary bradshaw
Number of posts : 2629 Age : 65 Location : st. helens, merseyside Rep : 24 Points : 8659 Registration date : 2009-08-04
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Mon Jul 28, 2014 6:34 pm | |
| I'm so very sorry Shell may he rest in peace | |
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fredsmum Admin
Number of posts : 31916 Age : 49 Location : posh part of derby Rep : 48 Points : 35946 Registration date : 2008-12-28
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Mon Jul 28, 2014 8:41 pm | |
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Lorz
Number of posts : 3170 Rep : 22 Points : 9240 Registration date : 2009-09-21
| Subject: Re: It's a sad day! Tue Jul 29, 2014 12:51 pm | |
| so sorry shell | |
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